My Details 

 

 

1966 - As a skinny 17 year old


 

1997 - 47 years - Running my business ( Colrix Electrical ) in Hervey Bay 


 

2001 - 52 years - Retired due to health problems. A bit more salt & pepper!
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 





2002
- 53 years - Very happy - On holiday with Judy at Daly Waters, NT  


                                                                    
 

 

 

 

 

 

 


2003
- 54 years - At a Xmas party

 

 

 

 








2006
- September - Just before 57th birthday.

 


 

 






 


2008 - January  - 58 years old


 
 

 

 

 




 


2009 - October - 60th birthday

 



2010 - 61 years old 
Melbourne Cup Day - 2nd November
Doomben Racecourse - Brisbane


 

RELATIONSHIP NAME FROM - TO  OTHER DETAILS
ME Colquhoun, Gary Robert 1949 -  
1st WIFE Koehler, Joy Marcia 1953 - Married Dec 1972

Separated Dec 1982

Divorced Sept 1985

No children

2nd WIFE

 

Rixon, Margaret ("Marnie") 1953 - Married Dec 1985

Separated Nov 1998

No children

Marnie kept her maiden name to save confusion with paperwork and to avoid problems with pronunciation of  "Colquhoun" at her place of work.

2nd WIFE's DAUGHTER

 

Tavares - Rixon, Danielle Gai 1981 Danielle's father is Richard Tavares.

Richard and Marnie decided to give Danielle both names.

FATHER Keith Robert Colquhoun 1929 - 1992  
MOTHER Maureen Colquhoun
- nee Ferguson
1927 -  
SISTER Karen Joy  Gooderham
- nee Colquhoun
1951 -  
BROTHER Russell Keith Colquhoun 1952 -  
SISTER Leanne Maureen Colquhoun 1957 - 1957  Died just after birth.
GRANDFATHER Robert Colquhoun 1901 - 1975 Came to Australia in January 1912.
GRANDMOTHER Myrtle May Haley Colquhoun  - nee Barkle 1910 - 1996  
GRANDFATHER Edward Norman Ferguson 1900 - 1975  
GRANDMOTHER Emma Harley Ferguson
- nee Ewart
1906 - 1970  

 

I was born in Kingaroy, Queensland, Australia in October 1949, which makes me 62 years old as I rewrite this.

In my working life, I trained and worked as an Electrician from 1964 until 2001. I finished work aged 52.

I now help friends and acquaintances with their computers, as I am now stuffed physically due to arthritis in my spine -  the same ailment as Dad had - and was told by the health professionals that I would have to go on the Disability Support Pension as nothing could be done to fix my spine.
I knew some sort of government support existed but never dreamed I'd end up on it. I always thought it was for malingerers.
I've found I'm not the only one who thinks that.
 
Now, when I'm asked
"what do you do for a living?"
and I say I'm on the Disability Support Pension, some people look at me as though I've stood in something smelly.

I can tell you that nobody willingly goes on the
Disability Support Pension, as the income you receive is not something to look forward to, and not working any longer, leaves you feeling that you have no identity or worth, though some people think you have a wonderful lifestyle.
I see the support as a form of "insurance" that I paid in taxes, as I worked -
constantly employed or self employed - from age 15 to 52.

I live with mum who is now 84, as my life has taken a very tortured path, emotionally and financially - divorces and separations - and has led me to living back with her. Luckily, it works well for mum too at this stage of her life, as someone is there for her, to take her to shopping, doctors etc.

I am in a relationship with a lovely woman, but we live in separate homes, as it is practical in light of our life experiences, even though I miss her company a lot.

Life is happy but I've found one thing in life is certain, and that is change, so I try to live each day as happily as I can. 

Last Updated : 27/01/2012 07:59 PM +1000